![]() We are living in an age where it feels as though every dumpster fire beckons an audience.Īnd none of this is to say that dating shows of yore were entirely tame. My high horse has gone to live on a nice farm upstate. If any of this sounds like I'm complaining, I want to be clear: I will watch every one of these shows and beg for more. If the producers of Too Hot to Handle actually got through to their sex-obsessed cast, there wouldn't be drained prize pots and Hail Mary attempts to restore them by putting the two handiest players in a dimly lit, petal-strewn room alone together. Daters put themselves in the hands of a larger orchestrating entity that would theoretically be rendered obsolete if it worked too well. In a way, the relationship between the producers and cast isn't entirely dissimilar to the one between daters and their apps. Though those barriers are presented as positive - hey, maybe you'll find love if you stop worrying about how tall he is - all those activities do and should have their place in relationships. ![]() Line up all these shows, and they seem to want to tell the audience something: Modern daters are lacking some profound ability to connect with each other, and that manifests itself in shows where the contestants can't see each other, touch each other, speak to each other. Yet is it all that different from hoping the right eye-catching photo or funny bio will lift your profile above thousands of others? ![]() Watching grown women cover themselves in oil and feathers and then dance around may not signal the fiery heat death of a once-powerful star, but it's surely the death of something. But they also feel like the waving of a red flag. Logically, these increasingly wild shows function in part as catharsis - a release valve for daters who think they've surely seen it all. Instead of some serendipitous meeting straight out of a rom-com, it's far more likely you'll find yourself on a date that feels more like a job interview. Potentially thousands of people have considered you while watching TV or sitting at a bar waiting on a friend - or even, perhaps, while on the toilet. If you're on The Apps, your face has likely flashed across thousands of screens, even just momentarily. The more you think about online dating, the weirder it gets. Daters have to deal with all sorts of undesirable behaviors, including catfishing, ghosting and the infamous array of dick pics.Īnd yet, a study from Stanford University found that online dating is the most popular way for people to meet: 39% of heterosexual American couples and 65% of same-sex couples met online. Survey Monkey found that 56% of adults saw dating apps as either somewhat or very negative. And according to the Pew Research Center, about 45% of Americans who've used dating apps said they were frustrated by their experience. Before you can even think about milestones like getting married and having kids, though, there's dating. Here's your standard collection of stats: Marriage rates are at the lowest they've been in the US since the government started keeping track in 1867. And yet, when taken as a whole, these shows feel like they're documenting the frenzied unraveling of our courtship rituals. You could run a small city off the unhinged voltage of a fake voice assistant telling scantily clad 20-year-olds to consider the emotional over the physical. The collective chaos of these shows could be an untapped source of renewable energy. The Ultimatum gives couples with commitment issues the chance to partner swap and decide if they want to marry the person they came with or move on. F*boy Island sets loose a flock of men, half of whom are self-proclaimed F*boys, on three women and asks them to sort out whose intentions are quasi-pure. ![]() Too Hot to Handle pays contestants not to sleep with each other (often to no avail), Love Is Blind facilitates engagements without the couple having seen each other. In the last few years, networks and platforms have offered some truly bonkers takes on dating shows. While absentmindedly washing dishes later on, it hit me: Dating shows are becoming more warped than they've ever been. For the most part they can't talk, which means partnering up involves a lot of grunting, flailing and rubbing. ![]() It's a dating show that puts 14 singles in the Colombian jungle and makes them complete challenges based on the mating rituals of various animals. The wildest two hours of television I've watched in the last few weeks belong to a Discovery Plus show called Love in the Jungle. ![]()
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